tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9107151958453669111.post3396450843340683210..comments2024-03-28T14:45:34.423-04:00Comments on 37 Paddington: Don't blow up the dolly house37paddingtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12400464105403622384noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9107151958453669111.post-48177984478523226302014-03-25T17:35:43.893-04:002014-03-25T17:35:43.893-04:00Wow I am just catching up on reading your posts. ...Wow I am just catching up on reading your posts. This one in particular really hit home for me. This is one of the things in fact I was talking to my therapist about today. I so quickly assume responsibility of my husband's mood. That it is something I did that is the reason for his poor mood. Like Ms. Moon put it. Sometimes people are upset and it has nothing to do with you. Thank you for your honest words here. It reminds me that we are not alone with these feelings.Andrea Kelleherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12711352023496985469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9107151958453669111.post-50721255207689004772014-03-17T19:28:51.382-04:002014-03-17T19:28:51.382-04:00These words are flying off the page! In my marriag...These words are flying off the page! In my marriage, we can be so sensitive to one another's moods and of course we both assume that the other is upset with us, when most of the time the truth is that the other is just upset. Then we just exacerbate one another's moodiness. This post is so wonderfully honest. I second Radish King. Now we all feel a bit less alone Vesuvius At Homehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02783271096885148080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9107151958453669111.post-8627752366258501232014-03-17T01:38:26.571-04:002014-03-17T01:38:26.571-04:00I love all these comments and want to add one more...I love all these comments and want to add one more: Marriage is for the birds sometimes -- perhaps most of the time. Except when it isn't.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03313726816776097840noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9107151958453669111.post-84041809150444704602014-03-16T04:30:11.040-04:002014-03-16T04:30:11.040-04:00Do not panic. Everyone needs a bit of space now an...Do not panic. Everyone needs a bit of space now and then.Steve Reedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11684120060438252945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9107151958453669111.post-54705140963966255492014-03-15T12:02:36.755-04:002014-03-15T12:02:36.755-04:00Thank you ((((Thank You)))) your honesty here this...Thank you ((((Thank You)))) your honesty here this morning brought me to my knees. I usually feel so alone. Now today I don't.<br />Love<br />RebeccaRadish Kinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06534752971317927559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9107151958453669111.post-60216335766414830492014-03-15T11:27:13.823-04:002014-03-15T11:27:13.823-04:00This post has an uncomfortable resonance for me at...This post has an uncomfortable resonance for me at the moment. Every word. And Ms Moon's tide analogy is spot on. We know. For me the knowing just makes it even more difficult. Here we go again?<br />Aren't we passed this part yet? It is emotionally exhausting. <br />love and hugs to you.<br />always.plantingalongtheverge.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13899341805908954700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9107151958453669111.post-65474036867035213752014-03-15T10:35:39.520-04:002014-03-15T10:35:39.520-04:00This must be how my husband feels when I go into m...This must be how my husband feels when I go into my cave. Which I do and which has nothing to do with him at all. It must be horrible. I am so sorry that I do that to him and I am sure your husband does not mean to do it to you. <br />Marriage. God, it is hard sometimes. When it's good, it's the best thing ever. When it's not good...it's too hard. <br />I always try to remind myself that sometimes the tide is in, sometimes the tide is out. Hang on. The tide will come back in, your love will be restored/renewed. After 28 years, you know that, even if you can't always feel it. <br />Yes. Let him work it out. Which is possibly the hardest thing you could do. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.com