I got my son into watching The West Wing over the holidays and now he's off to the races with the series, on season three already. He said, "This is the first time I've glimpsed why anyone might want to work in politics," he said. "It never made any sense before." Of course, we're so far away from that vision of political life now, but it's still a comfort watch, to imagine a world in which people serve with an actual desire to make others’ lives better. My boy is such a good son. He came with me to all my pre-surgery screenings this week, drove me there and back, sat in with me on the PT recovery planning meeting, helped me order the stuff I'm going to need, and has generally made me feel very taken care of. Yes, he can be a bit bossy, but we do understand it's his love language.
The little one is back in Dallas with her parents, and I miss her little face, her nonstop chatter, her busyness and rich imagination. She said to her grandma, "Let's go and play in my room," and I love that she has identified a room on our apartment as being her room. It is where she sleeps when she is here, so it stands to reason, after all.

Here's something else I love: How my daughter and her cousins love and enjoy each other. How when Harper's mom is in town, they all get together and paint the town, young women together having a supremely grand time. I told them send me pictures so I could relive my youth vicariously, and they indulged me. The next day, they lay on beds and couches all over my house, somewhat hung over, but all in agreement that the time they had was worth it. It certainly looks like it was!


My husband is upstate today, working with a small natural history musuem, teaching its science associates and student volunteers updated best practices for preserving its ichthyology collection. While he was there the snow started to come down. He's making his way home now through the still falling snow. I'm just sitting here, The West Wing playing on Netflix as I get ready to pick out end pieces for a puzzle my daughter gave me for Christmas and wait for the sound of his key in the door. Here's what it looks like right now outside my window.
And here's the very cool puzzle I'm about to lose myself in. Puzzles are my mediatation.
One more, this is me one week before my bionic hip. I look so optimistic, like I'm saying, okay fam, here we go.
My son and I watched "The West Wing" during the pandemic and haven't been able to bring ourselves to do a re-watch. Indeed, we are light years away from those days.
ReplyDeleteSending good wishes and healing thoughts to you for the hip surgery. I am woefully behind on reading posts, including your gorgeous words. I think I last wrote during the hurricane (I hope I did, anyway). Catching up now during this gray day here in Pittsburgh.
Good Lord but you're beautiful!
ReplyDeleteI love the thought of you walking without pain, on two equal-lengthed legs being tended (albeit in a bossy manner) by your son. You are going to be so happy, I think.
Is there anything better than knowing the people in your family not only love each other but like and adore each other and have the very best times with them?
Good plan to start a puzzle now. Perhaps you won't feel like working on it right after surgery but you will probably find it helpful when recovery is happening. And yes, it is so meditative.
Listen to your son, let others tend to you, and accept their loving care. They want to help you. Remember that.
One Mary agreeing with another Mary (Ms Moon)--you are beautiful!
ReplyDeleteAccept the loving help of your family with this surgery and recovery with all the graciousness you have within you (and--more to the point--are deserving). You've been there for them all their lives--let them be there for you. A gift returned. Here's to a good recovery. X
That lovely photo radiates your outer and inner happiness and beauty. Sending love as you prepare for surgery and subsequent recovery and longed-for mobility!
ReplyDeleteHope your surgery and recovery go smoothly. How nice to have your family to rally round you and support you!
ReplyDeleteKeeping good thoughts for you tomorrow. Hope your recovery is swift, it warms my heart to see your son taking such great care. Your entire family and all the obvious love helps me believe it’s possible to get through these dark times. Thank you so much for this.
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Barbara
You are a beautiful woman Rosemarie, accept it:)
ReplyDeleteI hope the surgery goes well and that your recovery doesn't suck. I've only had surgery once and nothing to do with bones, so I don't know how that kind of a recovery would feel.
Sending hugs.
You are so gorgeous. How is it you don't have a single wrinkle? That Harper is just so cute. My daughter is like your son. When my sister died, shen I found her and made the first four immediate calls, one to my daughter, she came and took charge during the next 24 hours and I was happy for her to do it being a little shell shocked.
ReplyDeleteYour beauty is unique- astonishing and other worldly! Holy smoke, Girl, you the best! I only saw a few WEST WING bits- loved it but didn't want to get involved...That puzzle is like food!! Glorious color!
ReplyDeleteI am so glad that you have some family members to be bossy! They keep ores in the water. You will do well in surgery- once the drugs wear off is another story. You will need bossy care! LOVE
Oh, and Harper- (sigh) just what I needed on this day!
ReplyDeleteAmazing photo! My granddaughter is a little older than your little one, and she just learned to ski today! She's so proud of herself! Isn't it something special when another human can lift up your heart like that?
ReplyDeleteBest wishes with your surgery. Take care of yourself, and let others take care of you too.
Just catching up on your blog, Rosemarie. I hope your hip replacement has gone well and I will watch for an update. "The West Wing" was always a very idealized version of politics, but it's Dave's favorite show and I've watched it through several times. It never gets dull!
ReplyDeleteWondering how the surgery went. If youre able quick update?
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