Were he alive, my dad would have turned 101 years old today. When I hold my memories of him up to the light, I see so plainly the ways he tried to make the world better, easier, kinder for those near him or far. He started out as a prosecutor, like the little girl above, before he became a judge and eventually chief justice. Today, honoring his memory with unalloyed hope, I pray we'll be able to say the little girl in the picture, whose own birthday was three days ago, grew up to be not just a prosecutor, a state attorney general, a senator, and a vice president, but also president of the United States.
Nicole Wallace said on TV last night that girl dads might be the secret sauce in a Harris/Walz win, that they don't want to see their daughters suffering under the Republicans' outlawing and criminalizing of life-saving reproductive health care that has already caused hundreds of thousands of women and their families untold pain. I hope she's right. I suppose it's too much to extend that hope to the idea that every man or woman who loves a woman or girl will do the right thing at the polls on or before November 5—but whatever, collective thought is a powerful driver, and hope is free.
In celebration of my dad's birthday, here he is in May 1946. He was 23 years old and working as a clerk of the courts in Spanish Town, Jamaica. This photo was taken the year he met a young postmistress who would one day become my mother and three years before they would wed and leave our little island for London, England, so that my dad could study law. Till the day she died in 2015, almost twenty years after my dad left us, my mom kept this photo of him between the tattered pages of her bible.
I hope so too.
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure about the dads thing. There are far too many men who still see women as needing protection and who do not have the sense or intelligence to make their decisions. I think of those Christian fathers who give their daughters rings to signify that they will be virgins when they get married, that until they meet a man the father approves of and marries him, she is basically his. And did not Trump just recently say that if he is elected, women will no longer need protection? That he will protect them? So many people are looking for the Big Daddy.
ReplyDeleteI probably shouldn't even be saying all of this but I am realizing more and more that although I feel strongly that Trump is a dangerous idiot and Vance an even bigger danger, there are many people who absolutely agree with their messages. It is terrifying and sickening.
May there be more of us and may we all vote.
I hope Wallace is right too, but I'm skeptical, along the same lines as Ms. Moon. I just hope people get out there and vote. Vote, vote, vote! Vote like your lives depend on it because they do!
ReplyDeleteAlso, just FYI, we bought your latest book for our school library. Picture tomorrow. :)
This girl dad is hopeful too. Wish I could vote.
ReplyDeleteKamala Harris is the right person at the right time. She could see clearly from an early age.
ReplyDeleteI voted early and was proud to vote for Kamala Harris! I'm so hoping we will make history with this election. I voted Blue up and down the ballot and hope many voters will too so we have a Blue landslide.
ReplyDeleteI voted yesterday blue from top to bottom, even to the extent of not voting at all for any republican that ran unopposed, a small message that no republican right now is worthy of holding any office.
ReplyDeletethe christian far right has been working for decades to get to this point to turn our democracy into an intolerant theocracy. scary times indeed.
I too hope Nicole Wallace is right. Madam Vice President is the only choice. We voted early and Blue up & down the ballot!
ReplyDeleteThank you for adding the photo of your father as he was when your mother met him. Their love story always moves me as do the many love stories in your family.
ReplyDeleteA very good-looking man, your father. But your whole family is gorgeous to look at. And so is the VP, for whom all Canadians are rooting. Hard. I am not sure it is the proper thing to pray for, a Democratic win, but this election is not just about politics. It is about ethics and truthfulness. So, are you listening God?
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ReplyDeleteJust catching up on your previous post, it made my heart so happy to see two of my favorite writers together. Seeing you with Sophie made my eyes leak.With all the election angst it was so good to see a reminder of all the good, loving people out there. Please let us not suffer as we did in 2016 and look forward! Please may there be a blue wave. You can see the dignity in that photo of your father even at such a young age.
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Barbara
A very handsome fellow, your dad. I voted and it has already been counted.
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