Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Slipstream

I can't sort out what I'm feeling these days, but here's what's salient. 1) My son is a freshman in college. He doesn't call. I guess that means he's adjusting fine. 2) My niece, the recent college graduate, moved in with us till she can find an apartment. She got a great job at a great salary and is thrilled to finally be living in New York. 3) My mom is here, in her treehouse apartment across the way (I call it that because the tree tops brush her window in a lush display). I try to see her every day, as she's emotionally steadier when I do. But sometimes, that means turning the hours inside out to create the time. 4) My daughter is spending a lot of time with her different circles of friends. Lots of different influences there. I need to stay connected. 5) Money is more tight than it has ever been, and I am not appropriately stressed about this. 6) My being in the office 5 days a week has me losing touch with friends, and with the necessary errands of my life. I mourn for the years when I worked two days from home. How do people do their lives working till eight or nine or even later every evening? Not possible. 7) Mostly, I miss my son. And I'm brooding on the fact that I will never again have a full view of his life. Just as my parents didn't know the half, or even the quarter, of what my life was like after I left home for college. 8) Lots of feelings, all of them streaming together. Confused.

2 comments:

  1. oh yeah! make sure you keep hold of those paddles....life does seem like it was simpler in some woebegone era

    looking back to the dark ages when i was in college, I think I only called my folks once or twice a month.....it's sometimes helpful to remember those days when we start focusing on our kids and their involvement with US....

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  2. Thanks, kimy! It sounds as if you know whereof I speak! Yes, I remember when I was in college, I wasn't thinking about my parents at all. That's as it should be, right?

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