Thursday, October 2, 2025

Popsicle and puzzle

 I can’t even post, really. Sometimes it’s too much. 

But here’s a picture. A space holder. Evidence of the good. 

We keep on. 

Okay, I'm going to try and mark those three wonderful days when my niece, her husband, and their magical child were here from Dallas with us, because together we created the kinds of experiences that help us keep on, that help us remember that even when the news is too terrible to bear—the lynched boy on a college campus down south who they tried to say hanged himself; the warrantless nighttime raid on an apartment building in Chicago, with doors bashed in and apartments trashed and naked children, citizens of this country, zip tied and thrown into UHaul vans with their bewildered and terrified parents; the 44-boat flotilla bringing food to a starving people, only to have their mission of mercy violently thwarted by the marauding state, and dear god, who prevents the delivery of food to people who are dying of starvation; the answer, of course, is those who are intent on their expiration—even when all that makes the heart heavy as lead, there are still those memories we made with this precious little girl last weekend, and we must not lose sight of such goodness. So here's another photo for posterity. We women, all of the tribe of Gloria, each one of us just a bit OCD, crowded around a jigsaw puzzle and who but little Harper sat in our midst, matching pieces with the rest of us, three generations of women folk in this meditation we all enjoy. It was lovely.



 

12 comments:

  1. Boy Howdy, do I understand that emotion. I'm trying to write up some of the major things so that in future years I can look back and remember.

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  2. I think it is always important to slow down and recognize and appreciate the moments that are a little magic-colored but now? It's not just important. It is imperative.

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  3. I'm doing a jigsaw too. So nice to see the little one looking so serious and joining in. The world is too much.

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  4. It's the hope and love that will save us. I'm uplifted by your posts, Rosemarie.

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  5. Sometimes narrowing your attention down to just what goes on in your house is the only sane thing to do.

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  6. Harper, There she is, our darling! This world is not good enough, not even close....Harper must cling to the strength that she has inherited! leaving the county is a good idea also...

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  7. Oh my gosh -- that child is the most precious little button, and the last picture is gold.

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  8. Beautiful women, all of you. I have just finished a 1000 piece puzzle of all of Jane Austen's characters, with a house for most of the novels. It was, um, a challenge. At the end I had three green tree pieces and could not get them to fit (all the pieces were the same cut in this puzzle). My husband calmly stepped in and got it done.
    My daughter gifts me with these puzzles. I love her. Yeah.
    May have to steal the gloriously absorbed little one the nest time I have a three piece breakdown.

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  9. When one's heart is heavy as lead (relateable) a jigsaw puzzle seems like a good antedote, to me: puzzle together and stick together.

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  10. You are creating lovely memories. Hold on to that.

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  11. Yes, all we can do is embrace the moments of joy amid the darkness. There's still a lot of good and beauty, even though it is sometimes overwhelmed by current events.

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