The most major hurricane to ever hit my little island is making landfall as I type this, on the morning of my husband’s birthday. Our kids, their loves, and our nieces are coming over for cake and pizza this evening. We’ll all no doubt be huddled around the weather channel seeking news of how everyone is faring back home. We are, most of us, immigrants and the children of immigrants. In crises, our first home looms large. I suppose, other than skin, this is the reason many immigrants are seen as “other.” Because we have two homes. We never do relinquish the birth land. It lives on within us. It helped shape who we are. And today, my birth land is besieged. Our loved ones there are hunkered down. The family reunion chat has been taken over with Hurricane Melissa updates from all corners of the island. This hurricane is a slow moving monster. Dangerous storm surges are expected on the heels of 185 mph winds and forty inches or more of rain. Landslides in the mountains. Not all homes in the country areas are sturdy. We’ll have to reclaim and rebuild in the aftermath, helping in whatever small and large ways we can.
Meanwhile, this loved guy. We’re going to celebrate him on this day, too.


What a beautiful expression of the love of one's original home. Will be watching with you and hoping that Melissa is better-behaved than expected. Happy Birthday to the man who is so steady and true.
ReplyDeleteI have no connection to Jamaica but I'll be checking today too. Praying it's not as bad as it sounds. Happy birthday to your husband!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to the big guy, and may he have many more trips around the sun.
ReplyDeleteI thought of you and your family first thing when I heard about the hurricane's path. May those in the zone be safe.
I hope you can celebrate happily despite it all.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to your husband. I have been tracking Melissa. I hope for no loss of life...
ReplyDeletewhen I saw the first hurricane warning I thought immediately of you and your family. I hope all will be as well as possible.
ReplyDeleteAnd happy birthday to your lovely husband.
I wish I had no idea what it feels like to know that a hurricane of that strength and power is heading in your direction.
ReplyDeleteBut I do. And at a certain point, all you can do is batten down as tight as possible and wait. It's horrible. I hope with all my heart that the people of Jamaica will ride this out safely. I am sure they know, if anyone does, have best to do that.
And happy birthday to that beautiful man of yours. May he have many, many more.
Happy birthday to your husband! My son’s best friend has family in St. Ann’s parish. My heart and thoughts will be with all those in the path of this monster. All I can do is send money to World Central Kitchen, they always seem to be the first ones to help in disasters.
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Barbara
Happy happy birthday to your beloved! I pray safety and well being for all on the island.
ReplyDeleteHappy you will be together, hoping for the best.
ReplyDeleteI was thinking about you and your family when they reported how big this monster is heading straight for Jamaica.
ReplyDeleteOther? Not really. It enriches. Happy day and let's wish fir the best.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to your dear husband!
ReplyDeleteYou've been in my thoughts ever since I heard about the hurricane approaching your beloved childhood home territory.
Melissa is a terrible horrible hurricane. The weather guys on twitter have been shocked by wind speeds, millibars and all of that. Happy birthday to the big guy.
ReplyDeleteI thought of you when I heard the hurricane forecast. I hope all will be safe; such a horrific storm. Happy Birthday wishes to your husband.
ReplyDeleteWishing your husband many more happy years of joy, laughter and love.
ReplyDeleteSorry to see the devastation to your beautiful island. Hope all of your family is safe.
I never thought about how it feels to have two homes. My mum left her home to come to Canada after the war. In Canada, she was English and in England, she was Canadian, never quite fitting in either place after she left.
ReplyDeleteI hope everyone is safe in Jamaica, houses can be replaced, but not people.
Happy birthday to your sweet husband.