Can you do what the Tao asks? Can you remain unmoving till the right action arises by itself?
"Knowing love, I will allow all things to come and go, to be as supple as the wind and take everything that comes with great courage. Life is right in any case. My heart is open as the sky."
From Kama Sutra: A Tale of Love, a film by Mira Nair
There is a distressing situation in the life of my extended family about which I can do nothing, or rather, if there is an action for me to take, I can't yet see it. And so I hold on to these words and trust in the wisdom of the Tao.