Thursday, August 18, 2011

The Pledge

What follows is an excerpt of what my good soul guru the Grady Doctor (that's her in all her awesomeness in the picture) had to say yesterday on the subject of hateful self-talk. At least two other blogs have already reposted her pledge, which I think makes this a movement. It should be a movement. Read on and join in. You don't have to be perfect. You just have to intend. Because don't we tired of having to shore ourselves up after tearing ourselves down? So I'm going to take this pledge, and when the harsh self-talk creeps in (as it might, because after all, I've been honing that skill for some time now) I will just do like the yogis and show it the door. Sometimes I might need to write that thought right out of my head, and I reserve the right to do that. What I'm aiming for here is not perfection, but heightened consciousness and the chance to practice being kind—including to me. For the whole deal, go right to the source.

From the Grady Doc:

There are scores and scores of us who have targeted ourselves for our most consistent insults. Almost like we have this need to preemptively strike against ourselves before someone else can. And to that I say Eeeeeeeehhhhnnnnnn! (*buzzer sound*) So as of today, I declare the rest of this month "No Hating on Myself Month." Here's how it will work, quite simple actually. The rules are that you can't say anything negative about yourself for the next two weeks. In other words, for the rest of August, you make a pledge to leave all hating to the professionals. Remember, they're much better at it.

The Pledge 
Place your right hand over your hip 
and let your backbone slip

I do solemnly pledge to allow no insults directed toward or about myself to leave my lips for the rest of the month. This includes but is not limited to references about the following:

butt size
hair length
baby weight
belly circumference
skin surface
crows' feet
height
complexion
salary
material possessions
marital status
relationship status
grades of any sort
comparisons to someone else
achievements of your children
size of your house
make of your car
mistakes from your past
compliments to others with reflexive insults to yourself
in same breath

Play Jill Scott's "Hate on Me" anthem and
shake what your mama gave you if you commit.

Dear Grady Doc, 
I commit.

5 comments:

  1. :) That is me smiling right at you, my dear.

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  2. Lord, I'm trying. I loved what you said on my post this morning. You're so right.

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  3. I love Grady Dr. and I love that you reposted her pledge here!
    Isn't that all kind of wonderful? I am so in on this. So in.

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  4. Another lady with a fabulous blog! Thanks for sharing her info with us, Angella. I'm now one of her Followers too.
    And I can't get the song out of my head. :)
    Sending you love, my friend. ~

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